2014-09-16: Daygame Session With Advance Buddy

Interaction #1

I got to one of the nearest malls that’s popular amongst the pua community in my city. I open this girl that’s walking in my direction. She’s walking pretty fast. I open her and she’s smiles and she continues to walk. I go back in and open her. She’s receptive but still walking because she’s late for work. I continue to walk with her until she gets to her store.

Interaction #2 

As I’m walking I see this gorgeous Italian girl walking past me. I walk up beside her and start chatting with her. She’s receptive. We talk for a bit and she makes a comment jokingly that I’m following her. I should have made her verbally give me permission to have me walk with her. Anyways, we get to the store where she’ going. I don’t want to follow her inside because it will get to awkward if I’m following her into a make-up store. So, I get her number and peace her out.

Interaction #3

As I’m walking with a buddy of mines, I spot this pretty Russian girl and open her. She’s into me and we start chatting. After like 10 minutes standing there and talking, I decide to walk her to the subway station before we departed. 2 hours laters, she texts me to meet up with her and her friend but I was across town.

Lessons & Results 

• If a girl smiles and walks past you as you open her, that’s a sign to go back in stronger and try to create a conversation. It’s just a sign that you opened a little too weak.
• Ask for permission from a girl to walk with her to logically and emotionally make her responsible for having you walk with her. This will cause her to have more investment in you.
  • She’ll feel more comfortable with the fact that you’re socially-savy and not creepy because you’re asking for her permission.

2014-09-16

Interaction #1

After I finished work I decided to walk around the mall for a little bit to shop around for a lunch bag. As I’m looking for the lunch bag, I see this cute girl looking for a bag as well. I ask her if she knew where the lunch bags were and joke around thereafter. She’s receptive and cool. We chat for a bit but she makes it known that she’s there with her boyfriend. I don’t want to create any drama so I peace her out and continue on with my lunch bag journey.

Interaction #2

I spot this tall gorgeous girl walking pass me and go into some clothing store. I wanted to talk to her but she’d always go into another clothing store as soon as I’d see her. Felt kinda creepy following her but whatever. I gave up and just decided to continue on my journey. Finally, as I’m walking out of the store, she walks pass me to the stairs. I make a comment and we start chatting. We venture into a clothing store she use to work in. She’s there for a good 30 minutes and I interact and joke around with all the girls there working.  Finally, she finishes her shoe shopping and the mall is about to close. She asks for my number and texts me. We hang out for a bit outside then peace out.

Interaction #3

I make a quick comment to some pretty blonde girl as I walk to the washroom. We exchange a few words and chat for a bit. We’re vibing and she’s dead set on smoking some weed. She doesn’t have any so we walk outside and part ways. I get her number and text her.

Lessons & Results

• When you’re walking into a store or place where the girl knows the people. Interact with everyone. Include everyone in the interaction and take some of the social pressure off the girl. Befriend everyone and make them all feel a part of the “fun”. Don’t just wait for the girl, look like you’re doing something else.
• If you’re in a girl’s clothing store with a girl, do your thing for bit. Don’t follow her around because then she’ll feel rushed and creeped out. Just relax and play around with things to entertain yourself or start a conversation with the employees.
• Retain the clean slate mindset of not seeing yourself as high value or low value. You are nothing but a normal guy just doing things. You are as enough as the next guy.
• Sometimes girls give you opportunities to escalate a situation. Take all the opportunities but don’t get overly excited. Be in the moment.